i know, im just afraid that if she goes to him treating it like an addiction wheni it's not it will bite her in the ***. for a wife to go to a husband telling him he cant do something he likes sounds condescending and patronizing. plus like shes trying to control him. if he wont stop and she cant get past it then its healthier for both to just walk away. i dont want her going in there like its the end of the world and have him hate her for it. its a very touchy subject that can have backlashes. i still think a lot of it is her own insecurities.... not just the fact that he's watching porn. and we dont even know if he does feel that way about it. i havent seen any post saying how often or the severity of it. because she feels its a sin, just about any porn watching is going to be bad to her. so there is an aspect of it thats probably blown out of proportion. thats why i suggested talking to a professional. everyone is going to have their own opinions on how much is okay and how much isn't so its not up to us to tell her whats an addiction and whats not.