I've never heard that song, but I can relate to those lyrics. I'm sorry you are having a hard time right now. Considering what to do about a marriage is heavy stuff. I'm glad you have a therapist who is helping you. Do you feel you have done everything possible to save the marriage? It is such an important decision, it can help ease your mind if you know you have done everything you could.

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Right now my pro and con list is pretty lopsided.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">I can relate to that. I had to do a pro and con list once as homework in T. I quickly came up with 25 things on my "leave the relationship" list and struggled to find 6 things in the "stay" list. That told me a lot. It's powerful to see it in black in white in front of you.