FromGirlToGirl

I probably won't have any advice or words you'd want or need, but wanted to let you known read your post..

I suppose you could mention your thoughts here to her, but I also hope she ... Well helps you know, that some people- they see some thing else, than what we or others may see....
Meaning- some, they see someone's entire beauty, and want to express their love to whom the love and find beautiful.

Sorry if that sounds corny , but I did read your post, so trying best.. wish you the very best on what your journey may bring you.