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Originally Posted by ruby2011
Not exactly romantic crush. It's complicated. And obsession is another word ppl used on me. They accused me of "obsessing" over him and being "massively in love with him." But I feel so empty bc ppl who initially like me always end up turning against me for the same reason. He said we could talk tomorrow when I work. How do I get him to understand that I was only being really friendly and not a creep? My Arby's supervisor failed to understand that.
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Ruby, you are the one who is failing to understand. If you act the way you acted at Arby's, you are going to get the same result you got there. You are not the victim in these stories. You are acting like a predator. You keep insisting on getting noticed after you've been asked to back off.
You actually do understand what's going on. You recognize that this behavior you're engaging in now is just like what you did at Arby's. So you know exactly what you're doing that is causing problems. It's not cute. It is creepy. The people on your jobs have shown a lot of patience in trying to get you to stop inappropriate behavior. They are trying to help you succeed at keeping a job. But you will lose this job, if you don't respect the instructions you are being given. Don't make a game of this, or you will end up ruining your life.