Those are some major life altering decisions. I would sit with them for a while. Maybe a few months. You've had several serious episodes since spring of this year. A few were psychotic. One was depressive. It makes sense you would now be on an upswing.

I would wait to see if you cycle again. I'd want to have a baby and make a move when I've had a good run of stability. Each of those events are quite stressful on their own, not to mention tackling both at the same time. Will this be your first child? Children are wonderful, but they are huge sleep disruptors and they change your schedule completely. You would benefit from support during that time. Do you have family back east?