Thanks. Yes, I know some T:s donīt like if the client "interferes" with their way of working but if so thereīs no collaboration and I think a T needs to adapt more to the client than the other way around. I really emphasized that I know my opinions were presented early in our contact but I also pointed to the fact that I react now in the same way I will do some weeks or months further ahead.
Yes, as I feel at the moment I donīt feel weīre a good fit. Some months ago I left a T at this facility after the evaluation sessions due to similar issues as with this current T. It turns out that they seem to work under a similar protocol and they relate to me in a similar way as well.
I didnīt write that text for her to just skim through but to use as a base for our contact. I donīt mean she has to bring it up every time or read it in her spare time but I do think it was an important document that was meant for her, not something that she will mostly forget and never look at again.
Often I write several posts about the same T and itīs not that every post is about a new T.
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Originally Posted by sarahsweets
Hi @SarahSweden- I think I need more clarification on what a relationally therapist is.
She should have validated your feelings and given some sort of feedback. But I wonder if she felt like you were telling her how to do her job? Maybe she didnt think it was something to be worked on. It sounds like you listed what you need, your feelings about what happened and maybe she accepted that and wanted to start the session another way?
Do you mean you two are not a good fit?
This is where I disagree. You are not the therapist and you are assuming and projecting how she should feel, what she should do and how she should it. What makes you think she should find it interesting or that she should reflect on it more, maybe she wanted you to reflect on it more?
I do not know you that well but I often see threads of yours centered on your therapists. have you had alot of them or is it just the same one you have issues with?
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