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Oct 01, 2019, 09:57 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
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Originally Posted by ruby2011
I went in to work this past weekend and he suddenly ignored me from the start. He said it’s cuz I’m creeping him out. Reminds me of the Arby’s supervisor accusing me of “obsessing” over her. I came in today on my day off to talk to him about it and he didn’t even acknowledge me or say hi. He said we’ll talk tomorrow when I work. Why do people push me away for being nice AF to them? I’m only nice in an average way to everyone else and they still like me just fine. It doesn’t make sense.
When other ppl look up to someone or otherwise be extra nice, it’s appreciated. I get accused of obsessing and having a crush on someone.
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Ruby, we've talked about what happens when you go in on your day off to try and instigate relationships with coworkers who are simply coworkers and not friends.
You are not being nice. You are being inappropriate. You need to look back at your threads regarding what happened at Arbys and how you were advised in that situation about your stalking behavior. Now you are stalking a new manager.
What does your case manager say? What does your therapist say?
You are behaving inappropriately going in on days off and giving extra attention to a manager instead of focusing on work.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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