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sarahsweets · Oct 02, 2019, 09:02 AM

Hi @BoomerMudcat- Have you ever directly asked your friends why they do not want to hang out? I mean beyond whatever lame excuse have you said something like " You never seem to want to hang out, are we not friends anymore?" I dont know if you would get an honest answer but its better trying this instead of guessing and wondering.

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Originally Posted by BoomerMudcat

My close friends have become more distant, my normal friends don’t ever ask me to hangout anymore, when I ask its always no followed by an excuse. At the end of the day, I know it has been my fault.

What makes you say it is your fault? Did you do something or have a fight?

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I have come to terms that i do not need people in my life to give me joy, i have other things i can do. I love to read and play piano and drums, and exercising. Maybe its better to be isolated because I can get better at the things i enjoy? Im just sick of feeling unwanted by every single person i talk to, it is starting to take a toll on me, thanks for reading.

I do not agree that you do not need people in the sense that yes, learning to find joy in your life independent of people is healthy- many people cant deal with any alone time. But I do not think it means that you are better off without people. I understand that you are hurt though. Do you have any online friends?