Impala, this woman is not doing you any good and that is what you should be concentrating on. If she's not ready, you have to drop it until she calls you and says, "Okay, I'm ready now!" That may be never. But you have to drop it now because, as you say, you have tried with her. She isn't doing anything about the friendship at the moment, not stringing you on, not deciding what to do in the future, not thinking of you or the friendship. She's doing other things, as you've said. You have to go do other things too.