Wow, I am so sorry you have all this going on, @Bowie's Lady. Thank goodness you have a diagnosis that should be able to be dealt with successfully in the operating room (or theater, as you might say). Still, your surgery date is kind of a long ways off. Is there a plan to get you to that date without suffering so, physically? I certainly hope so.

My physical health has been pretty good so far. It is the mental side I struggle so much with. Having to deal with both simultaneously must be overwhelming at times. Sending you positive vibes. Hang in there. You can make it Nov. 12th. And things will be better.