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Old Oct 02, 2019, 05:41 PM
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My T wants me to watch this to get ways to deal with my child parts temper tantrums. I do not think they are having temper tantrums but he does. Since I never had kids I have no idea how to handle them expect the abusive way I was handled.

I don't know. Seriously? Is the going to work. I can never envision myself disciplining myself because that is what it is!
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.