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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967
I just can not seem to get my den in order and it’s demoralizing. As I mentioned, I cleaned out a storage unit a few months ago and this is stuff from when I was married for 19 years. I have family friends who would do it but I have to go through (or think I do) everything to see what to keep and what to donate. Maybe I should just say to heck with it and donate everything.
If it was in storage for 7 years and I never used it, why would I now? My life coach thinks there is an emotional component to it that is holding me back. I don’t know why. I’ve been divorced for ten years and it was my decision.
Very frustrating as it’s pulling my mood down.
Otherwise, doing well. Family says I’m isolating. I say I’m heavily in to inner work right now. Who knows for sure?
Warm wishes to all and hugs to those that are struggling.  |
Maybe you've got something valuable in the mix and you subconsciously know you're going to find it. Maybe your therapist is right. It would be good to at least sit with the feelings for a while to see if there is anything left there to process.
Do you have a history of isolating? What does that behavior typically lead to for you? Quiet reflection time can be healthy under the right circumstances. If Jesus can sit in the desert alone for 40 days who are we to judge?
