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Old Oct 03, 2019, 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967 View Post
I just can not seem to get my den in order and it’s demoralizing. As I mentioned, I cleaned out a storage unit a few months ago and this is stuff from when I was married for 19 years. I have family friends who would do it but I have to go through (or think I do) everything to see what to keep and what to donate. Maybe I should just say to heck with it and donate everything.


If it was in storage for 7 years and I never used it, why would I now? My life coach thinks there is an emotional component to it that is holding me back. I don’t know why. I’ve been divorced for ten years and it was my decision.


Very frustrating as it’s pulling my mood down.


Otherwise, doing well. Family says I’m isolating. I say I’m heavily in to inner work right now. Who knows for sure?


Warm wishes to all and hugs to those that are struggling.

Since your already aware it’s effecting your mood maybe you can quickly go through the stuff , skim over it and just toss stuff in the donate pile or trash pile.

Yes working on inner work is important but you know you have to becareful about isolating. Listen to your family’s observation.

Hope your able to dig into your den , I love organizing things !

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