Hello starrynight: Thank you for bringing your concern here to PC. I see this is your first post. So... welcome to Psych Central. The Attachment Disorders forum, here on PC, may be one to take a look at. Here's a link just in case you haven't already found it:

https://psychcentralforums.com/attachment-disorders/

And then here are links to 5 articles, from Psych Central's archives, that (hopefully) may be of some help including a link to the romantic attachment quiz here on PC. The first link is to an article by our host Dr. John Grohol, Psy.D.:

What is Commitment Phobia & Relationship Anxiety?

Are You Emotionally Unavailable?

What Is Attachment and Why Is It Important?

How to Change Your Attachment Style

https://psychcentral.com/quizzes/rom...tachment-quiz/

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.