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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967
I found out today that my bible study group has put me on the inactive roster because I haven’t been active enough according to them. I am so disheartened and discouraged. I thought these were my friends and I looked forward to the communications (three times a week) on the weeks I couldn’t go. Now I am cut off from that. It’s just unacceptable and unchristian behavior. I noticed a distinct difference in their treatment of me when I shared my diagnosis with the leader and one of her officers but I overlooked it and kept going in the hopes of educating them by my behavior as time went by.
My daughter has urged me for close to a year now to find a different bible study group. She finds them to be unwelcoming and cliquish (she has been to events with me). I’ll get over it...it just hurts right now and it hit at the wrong time. This has been a big part of my life. I don’t know whether I will go back or not. I certainty don’t feel welcome.
Warm wishes to all and hugs to those that are struggling.  |
Wait wait wait... They have a roster and you were sidelined?
I agree with your daughter. You don't want to be a part of any group that cannot accept you as you are. It makes me frustrated they would treat you different because of your diagnosis. Judgment is the opposite of what they should be going for. I am sure it hurts, but I would walk away or better yet run from this. I have stayed away from study groups for reasons just like this. Lately, my brother and I have just been sharing passages and talking spirituality whenever it feels right. I enjoy that kind of fellowship. Hit me up of you ever want to toss anything around.
So sorry this happened. I know you were dealing with family thinking you were isolating and I'm sure this doesn't help.