Tomi, I haven't read the whole thread. Only the first post, but I just wanted to tell you that I think you stated things pretty objectively, considering the emotions involved for you.

Also, I think you were really brave to call CPS on your daughter. I knew a woman years back who said that she knew her grandkids were getting beaten but she wouldn't call CPS on her own daughter. I don't think that's right. Even if Karla never forgives you for that, those kids need to be protected and you did your best.