Razzleberry, have you considered couples counseling with your husband?

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Will my child be torn between two families for the rest of her life? Is that going to hurt her?

My heart just aches to think of her being dragged between two houses for the rest of her life.

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If you do decide to get a divorce, it needn't be so bad for your daughter as what are envisioning. If the ex-spouses can be civil and thoughtful to each other after the marriage, putting their daughter's needs first, they can create two warm and loving, but separate, homes. Some good books on how to do this are Mom's House, Dad's House and The Good Divorce. They are described in the book thread in this forum, which I'll give a bump.
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