It is hard enough to make a marriage work when you have absolutely zero doubts or questions at the time of the engagement. Marriage is an absolutely enormous amount of work and project over the long haul. There are just so many huge challenges to be faced, hopefully, together. I personally find your reservations very, very worrisome. It seems as though something inside you is trying to speak to you, but you keep putting it aside. If you do that and then get married, you're stuck. My divorce is the single worst experience of my life. It nearly ruined me. You don't want to go through that, believe me.

I'm a big believer in the idea that in these kinds of things, our gut knows what the right thing is. What is yours saying?