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wisewoman said:
grief in my opinion should be kept for the loss of people in our lives. My loss of Jane is a lot worse then my puppy.
It was only a dog and my suffering is a simple thing afterall.
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(((((wisewoman)))))
grief is for anything and everything we may lose, whether it be a person in our lives, a pet, a stage of our lives, etc etc. Some ppl might grieve as much for missing out on hearing their child's first word as someone else might when a person close to them dies. It is all relative to that person, and as you hold your puppies so dear to you it does not make your grief any less significant than if you lost someone dear to you. I hope you are able to work through this ok, and that you and hubby can support one another- the guilt he must be carrying right now will be huge too.
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