Yeah I do the same thing. I’m very careful when it comes to paying checks with friends and yeah I have started to make myself clear more now. Back then with the burger, I did say I was paying and even had my card out and was just about to hand it to the cashier but I let the lady stop it from happening.

I should have made it clear that I was paying, not her but I didn’t want to make a scene. It can be tricky. And yeah in terms of people saying you don’t need to pay them back, sometimes I do think they secretly hope you do which is understandable.