Yes. I started looking for a pro bono lawyer today since I don't have any money. I will akso wait until she goes out for something that will take a long time so I can have privacy to call legal aid and find out what options I have for pursuing legal remedies. Does anyone know if you can you delete phone calls from your phone records? I never tried it before so I don't know.

I also thought of another way to deal with the mess. I think if she throws something on the floor after she uses it, I should put it away out of sight and not tell her where it is. That way I'm not living with her mess or catering to her needs. I have spent months trying to clear the hallway in the hopes of being able to safely carry my disabled dog outside for exercise. Decluttering means I have to wipe her dog's dried urine and sometimes poop off things like tools and household items and launder clothing and bedding that are soiled with fecal matter. I was starting to make progress when my sister tossed a vacuum cleaner out of her room and spilt some stuff on the floor. I think I will put everything away where she can't find it. She will scream and curse when she needs things, but at least that will make it take longer for these items to end up back on the floor.