Yes, I agree with what ALL the other wise and wonderful posters have already WISELY and WONDERFULLY SAID BETTER THAN I POSSIBLY EVER COULD IN MY WHOLE AND ENTIRE LIFE, @DapperChapper! I'd suggest to just TALK to him about ALL of this and tell him that you have some struggles when it comes to your Sex Drive. Just be honest with him and hopefully you'll BOTH be able to work things throughout your Life and your Relationship! Perhaps a Sex Therapist may also be able to help you if you just ask for help if your Partner agrees! Give it a thought! I DO think it's important to discuss the Issue you're having so that you'll BOTH be able to improve your Sex Life so that it will satisfy BOTH OF YOU! Are you taking any Meds? Perhaps check out your Libido Levels as well! In any case, definitely keep working on it if you can, talk to him about ALL OF THIS and Hopefully you'll be able to work these things out throughout ALL AND THE ENTIRETY OF YOUR LIFE AND ALL AND THE ENTIRETY OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH of you, @DapperChapper, your Family, your Friends and ALL Of Your Loved Ones! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING!