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Old Oct 07, 2019, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by LonelyMan View Post
I knew a girl, she has mental problems, who would come talk to me all the time when i met her in bookshop. about photography computers etc. No romantic interest in her and in fact she was always starting the conversation.Coming over to me when i researched in the library.


I met her in the bookshop when i had not seen her for long time so i went over to say hello. She seemed a bit distant/bad humor then suddenly turned to me and said 'have i got egg on my face the way you are staring at me?' I was not staring. i was as normal, when you talk, sometimes you make eye contact then look away etc . You do not glare. i don't and didn't. i was exactly as usual but she was in some sort of paranoid period.

So next time i saw her i said hi and kept going.Time after that she was in the distance so i said nothing but i said hi to the person she was talking to as he is a personal friend of mine.

i won't be stopping to talk to her again. If she said that with no evidence she could say anything. I accept she cannot help her mental problems but they are not my fault and i will not be caught in a situation where she could make false allegations.
It sound like a great idea! A great plan to protect oneself.