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Crap.
I sent him an email that perhaps my inner child does not need discipling and he replies he is eager to hear my thoughts on needing soothing and he wonders what would happen if googled videos on how to sooth children.
This is annoying me. I don't know how this is helping.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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