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Oct 08, 2019, 10:22 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
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hey @SarahSweden: I am trying my best to be gentle here but I admit its tough. It seems like no matter what you have an issue with a therapist. Many therapists. Below I listed some of the threads you started about you and therapists. And this isnt all of them, it was like maybe one page. Do you see a pattern here? I am not sure you are ever going to find what you are looking for because what you seem to want is unattainable or impossible. Do you think there is a part of you that doesnt want therapy to succeed and that a part of you likes the conflict and strife associated with problems with therapists. Sometimes we get comfortable and used to certain things and ways of acting even when they are unhealthy, negative or unproductive. Being Familiar with the situations that our feelings associate with is comforting in a way and fear keeps us from going out of our comfort zone and working on ourselves. its very selfish of us to work at it this way and I do not see how any sort of productive work could get done if started out like this.
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Appropriate or not to criticise therapist and therapy during intake sessions? (Multi-page thread 1 2)
SarahSweden
Psychotherapy
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You are subscribed to this threadHow can this therapist be relationally oriented?
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10-04-19 05:46 PM
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Wishes and complaints about therapists turn into pathologizing of the client
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Psychotherapy
Why those standard procedures that don't mean anything? (Multi-page thread 1 2)
SarahSweden
Psychotherapy
Feeling a bit deluded about my counsellorsīs true situation (Multi-page thread 1 2)
SarahSweden
Psychotherapy
Counsellor perhaps married during summer?
SarahSweden
Psychotherapy
How should I specify the qualifications I need in a new therapist?
SarahSweden
Psychotherapy
Possible to dislike new therapist already when talking on the phone
SarahSweden
Psychotherapy
Transference and finding facts about T:s relationships like marriages and divorces
SarahSweden
Romantic Feelings Toward My Therapist
Are all psychodynamic therapists impersonal and emotionally distant? (Multi-page thread 1 2 3)
SarahSweden
Psychotherapy
Inequities in society and my own failure is highlighted when seeing a therapist (Multi-page thread 1 2 3 ... Last Page)
SarahSweden
Today I took the decision and told my therapist how I feel
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Psychotherapy
My new T makes me doubt and blame myself for our bad therapeutic relationship (Multi-page thread 1 2 3 ... Last Page)
SarahSweden
Psychotherapy
New therapist today - "hidden" kleenex behind curtain! (Multi-page thread 1 2 3 ... Last Page)
SarahSweden
Psychotherapy
Feeling sad hearing about other people having children even if you never wanted any?
SarahSweden
Coping with Emotions
Do you imagine your therapist within sexual situations?
SarahSweden
Romantic Feelings Toward My Therapist
Erotic transference: Do you ever imagine your therapist masturbating?
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Romantic Feelings Toward My Therapist
I still suffer from complicated feelings towards my therapist after termination
SarahSweden
Psychotherapy
Why am I thinking in such detail and so often about my former therapist?
SarahSweden
Romantic Feelings Toward My Therapist
Holidays deepens feelings of being forgotten by former therapist
SarahSweden
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