. Unfortunately, love isn't enough for a good relationship. All of your concerns are valid; always listen to your gut/inner voice. If he doesn't change, could you see yourself married to him 10-20 years from now?

Explosive bursts of anger would be a terrible way to begin a marriage....He needs counseling on his own to resolve those, if not I would not marry him..

I ignored red flags (controlling, anger, etc) and thought the (now ex) would change; 31 years later, I got a divorce.