Ok wow ... I think some of her comments really aren’t going to help a thing. Can you stop her while she’s doing this and say ... okay maybe I’m not explaining my feelings right because I find your observations are far off in left field ???
It’s perfectly fine to challenge our T’s when we feel they just aren’t “ hearing us”
Personally the female T’s I have seen just annoy me! I prefer to see a Male T.. I like and need to know how to look at a situation through a males perspective. My T can open up a discussion with short sentences and a good useful conversation can take place.
I hopeful that by sharing here in depth it will help build up your confidence so you can be more proactive about finding and learning valuable skills to help improve your life not only for yourself but your family also.
Keep looking into yourself and work towards obtainable goals.
Do you have a goal for this week ? Or something to look forward too ?
Mine are : I see my T tomorrow and I plan to finish my grocery shopping to stock up on meat to finish out my month of planning. I want to include even a short walk daily now that it’s finally cooled off.
Maybe setting a goal would help you ?