I used to have a much harder time with this. I let myself get into all sorts of situations that weren't right for me simply because I was afraid to speak up. I gained a lot of confidence over the years and now I speak my mind freely. I think working in a professional setting where I was often an advocate for my customers helped me learn to do this for myself. I'm kind and I don't step on others to do it, but I seek what's right for me. I also speak up for my children and others who do not yet have a strong voice.

It is great this is getting easier for you. It takes time and effort, but it is well worth the investment. I feel this skill set is especially important when navigating our medical care decisions. It will serve you well.