Hi Razzleberry

Thanks for the practical advice. That's one thing i've had lots of here so that sides not a worry now. It's just knowing he's about to be honest. And being told the conditions of the restraining order when they do get it done. Like there's a distance limit on it apparently...i.e. can't come within i think 100yards...so i suppose it's just knowing he could still watch me from 110 yards and i can't do a thing.

and i think i'm being stupid...so long as he doesn't actually hurt me i shouldn't bother...it's just doing my head in atm to be honest.

thanks for your support ((Razzleberry))