The degree of how uncomfortable he made you has been made very obvious-- you have posted about getting a new therapist, online therapists, not wanting to go back to him, how embarrassed he made you feel in the session, etc. I am wondering why you would suddenly take a poll and consider going back to him. Is it because of the frustration of not being able to go about finding a "good" therapist? I really think what he did is inappropriate. I do not think it is inappropriate for a therapist to ask very personal sexual questions (if it was so inappropriate then sex therapists would be out of a job), but I do believe the way that he went about it was completely inappropriate-- in regards to timing, context on the conversation, etc. Don't go back into a situation in which you were so obviously uncomfortable just because you might be feeling some desperation to get help. Can you fuel those feelings into finding someone else who can help you?
You mentioned in another post that you already found someone in the same building who is willing to see you for a first time appointment. Did this fall through? You are mentioning going back to this other therapist or forgetting about it and 'finding someone else' so I'm wondering hat happened.
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