I hear ya! I am finding i am confused. I posted my little story ...feel free to read it. After my divorice i had sex with a girl. Then went back to men which didnt last long after being with another women and been celibate for 6 years. Right now dont think i like either. And find i am more asexual. Sometimes i find my manager, therapist and co worker attractive, all females. Not sexual but admirable, but also distracting attractive as in when i am in session i am thinking of her...how her dress fits, how her hair is, sometimes even to imagining kissing her. My manager, same thing but not to the point of imagining a kiss.

Just a simple friend of either gender would be nice. Though the guy would have to be gay so that there is noway in hell he would ever make a pass at me. I just think right now it would have to be like that. A girl, i could settle for a friend, but open minded.

Asexual with lesbian tendencies???!?!