Thanks for sharing this. Realistically there's not much I can offer with regard to it except to say that I've struggled with gender identity issues my entire life. I'm AMAD & I've lived a male lifestyle. I've also always been heterosexual based on my birth gender. So it's all been very confusing for me. (My gender identity issues might have made more sense to me had I been gay.)
This all begins to get very complicated very quickly. (I'll spare you the details.) But there was a period of time, a few years ago, when I became convinced I had been transgender my whole life. But as time has gone by I've decided that my gender identity issues may have been simply one aspect of a broader mental health problem. The fact is, at this late stage of my life, it no longer really matters one way or the other although to be honest I still harbor a deep desire to know (even though I know I never will.) But the one thing I know, from personal experience, is that anything related to gender identity or sexual orientation can be excruciatingly confusing.
P.S. I don't know what sapiosexual is.