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Originally Posted by resurgam
you've only been with this guy 6 months & you are pregnant because MULTIPLE condoms broke..wow...one condom maybe , but a bunch...what are the odds???? and the morning after pill didn't work?
how did you meet him?
seems like this guy has a history of condoms breaking....lots of child support...
so now he "finds" Kelly out of the blue on his phone and wants to be with her, and you are at first ok? and now not. now there are issues, amybe moving out, maybe not...maybe therapy , maybe not
this guy is smarter then you think...he has a pattern and you fell into it. and now there will be a walking, talking souvenir 9 months down the road. get a paternity test when the baby is born so you can hit him up for child support too. if you can find him....
chances are he'll be gone..it's just a train wreck.
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An i bought the condoms so i know they were not just defective, i also put them on...
Well he was married 3 kids there, not accidents. Then a girl slipped pills in his drink (a few friends of mine actually knew of her and no one will drink around her) that's kid number 4. We met through a friend of mine that used to work with him.
If he's gonna be gone why does he want to move out by me still and help with the baby. He just bought a crib for the baby and a car to commute back and forth...
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I've called his therapist was telling me He's seeking comfort and distraction from the hurt and looking in the wrong places. If he was a dog he would of been doing this with all his female friends and he's got 4 of them. I know all of them, one he met online on Facebook (she's bringing some baby clothes for the baby) an is a good friend of both ours, one he works with and often bicycles with as that's a hobby of his. One he used to work with and is a friend of mine too. The last was an ex's friend who is older and is actually the one who told me about the **** show one of his exs put him through.
He's not actually dating Kelly and wants to spend most his time with me yet.
He's never hidden anything from me as this phone was always unlocked and i was allowed on it. Anything I've asked about he's always told the truth.
Next time he asks for me to come over I'm going to ask if he's still pursuing kelly and if he says yes then I'm going to say "well then i can't, you need time to let me go and forget about me as its not fair to Kelly or you. I also need time to work on myself and proccess my feelings because right now I'm not a very good friend" which when i have told him the first part he always gets really morose and says he doesn't want to. Then i tell him besides how do you suppose moving out to the farm with me will affect Kelly? He sputters a few excuses then says he would ditch her... So I'm going to say there is a lot more here than just that he's a dog. I've been with a dog before their lies are obvious and their sneaky and i know all the signs... And these don't really fit right. While i can see some i can also see other things that are out of place. This isn't just an open and close case something complex is going on here and i can't put my thumb on it. But either way at the end of the day I'm stepping back to see what he does...