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Yes. Have boundaries and enforce them. Being kind of heart doesn't mean you have to be a pushover. Incidentally, it's the pushovers and people pleasers who turn out to be the biggest dicks deep down inside.
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Originally Posted by Disney2019
that would be the smart thing to do; but I overanalyze. Is he mad, ignoring me, etc..
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Why does it matter? If he's mad at you, then it's on him to tell you why. The silent game is for children. If he's deliberately ignoring you for whatever reason, whether it's manipulation or inconsideration, then he's the one who's being an asshole.