I think you're settling for less than what you need in your life now. You need to make sure you have the means to take care of a child let alone yourself. I hope it works out between you and your man but if you can't make it work out, what are you going to do? I made a mistake for settling for less and married a man who could not take care of himself, who wanted money from me, and who was abusive. I have been there and can tell you that marrying or settling with such a man does not make things better but worse. You need to address your priorities, that is, you and your future child. I would focus first on trying to take care of these priorities first. You should realize raising a child is not easy and no cake walk. If he wants to be there for you and the child, he would not be dating other women and causing you more problems. I say run for it and take care of your future- your child. And, I would detach yourself from this man for awhile, and see how things fall into place. If he really wants you and your child in his life, he would marry you and do whatever possible to make sure it works.