I sounds like you are rather comfortable with this level of exacerbation? I'm indifferent, I know I shouldn't be.
You say you"re used to this level of an annoyance? If it's not one thing it's another. It's not being use to it. I'm not stressed or alarmed by it.
I hope you can tell your husband tonight I don't know if I can. He likes to tell me things aren't true. Then I get upset that he's lying. Then it makes everything worse.

Does your abilify make you sleepy? Sometimes, I think I'm going to go lay down with the phone.