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Originally Posted by LiteraryLark
That's kind of the point of talking. We do it when it's convenient for both of us.
There's a difference between being nice and being a soft gullible doormat. There's also a time to know when the relationship is going well and when to let go. It sounds you're also having unreasonable expectations with what you want with these guys you date. If he's really not interested, why bother chasing him?
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Originally Posted by divine1966
I stand corrected. But you still have plenty of time to meet right men. Mid 40s is now new 30s. Still young
I am not suggesting you should chase perfection. No one is perfect. You just have to have clear standards and firm understanding of what works for you and what doesn’t. This clearly isn’t working
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Thanks. I’ve been on the fence with him..I will second guess myself because then he will start initiating contact, asking to see me, etc...but then after I see him we’re back to square one..he’s always putting his friends and everything else first..I feel all I’m doing if making his already huge ego even bigger and he certainly isn’t the end all, so it’s no good. He needs his ego deflated