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Originally Posted by divine1966
Well there is a reality and then there is something we want. Reality is that he is no good as a boyfriend. So focus on reality. Wanting and hoping for things to be different isn’t going to change him.
I’d also talk to a therapist about attraction to unavailable disinterested men. There has to be something in it. When you explore it in depth you might break the pattern.
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I have honestly had enough of his pubescent games. I am not in junior high school, and I’m not going to play jhs games either. I recall one weekend, not too long ago as a matter of fact, I was texting him Saturday and Sunday and I even tried to call and he didn’t pick up..I didn’t know if he was upset with me, if something happened god forbid or what. So come Monday I texted him he says that he was sick all weekend, didn’t respond to anyone..it was a load of crap because he slipped a day later or so telling me how his friend stopped by on Saturday. If he was sick as he said, then he wouldn’t have let them in. He lies so much he can’t keep track of what the hell he even said. So you bet, he would say some load of crap again..he didn’t feel like talking to me anymore, so like an ***, he just decided not to respond anymore out of boredom or whatever. Well, let’s see how he feels when he’s bored and his text and calls aren’t going through...