It's just the way it is. I live in a very rural area and moved farther away from my therapist when I moved here. I don't want to change so I drive. My pdoc and I have both moved but there is no way I'm dropping her so I drive to her too. Fortunately I don't mind driving long distances. For the last 2 years I worked my commute was 90+ minutes and I drove all day from house to house, sometimes traveling 2 or more hours from home in the course of my day. I do wish my pdoc were closer when I'm driving home at night but I am able to see both in the same day which helps with the driving and it's only once per month.