At various points in my life, I'm grieving over the following losses:
- Giving my daughter up for adoption
- Job/career loss
- Reputation loss
- Loss of conservation of resources
- Loss of social capital
- Relational loss
- Bereavement over those who have passed away (father from heart attack, best friend during teen years from being a victim of statutory rape and murder)
- Health loss (due to physical disabilities)
- Youth loss (during aging)
- Aesthetic loss (loss of beauty, attractiveness)
- Loss of superb working memory
- Loss of memory (due largely to dissociation, amnesia, many blows to the skull throughout my traumatic years)
- Loss of identity (due to the many cascading effects of losses throughout my lifetime, which impacted my identity)
- Loss of self (whenever I'm forced to walk on eggshells or whenever I'm experiencing moral injury trauma or whenever I'm coerced or whenever I'm being victimized)
- Loss of mental health
- Loss of respect
- Loss of spirituality
- Loss of normative body functions
- Loss of dreams (not deferred)
- Loss of sexuality (I'm asexual due to physiological and psychological traumas)
- Financial loss