Yes, family quarrels are certainly hard to deal with, @WishfulThinker66 - especially during the Holidays!! I am so sorry you have to put up with ALL of this! Grind Your Teeth And Bear What You Can. Hopefully things will improve soon! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @WishfulThinker66, Your Family, Your Friends and ALL of Your Loved Ones! STAY STRONG, TRY TO DO YOUR BEST, PLEASE NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER GIVE UP, KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK? I hope you'll be able to do and to Promise Us ALL OF THAT and to handle things AS WELL AND AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN!!