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Originally Posted by LilyMop
Do you want to keep this circle of friends?
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Most of them, yes. There are only a couple who are shamelessly rude, Regina being one, but she's also at the center of the circle. If I want to go to a social outing with any of them, she will almost certainly be there.
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Do you think being a good person means you have to ignore rude comments?
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No, and I don't ignore rude comments, especially not those directed at me. But I have a tendency to take it way too far, stir pots and push buttons. Lately, I've just been trying to be less mean with the retorts and more diplomatic in arguments. I still think it's a good tool to have, but maybe it isn't the best one for this situation. Or maybe I'm just not any good at it.