Hello LundiHvalursson: Well... I'm not a woman. So I'm not one of the members you want to hear from here on PC. But I noticed this is your first post & you had yet to receive a reply. So I thought I would at least welcome you to Psych Central.

Here are links to 2 articles, from Psych Central's archives, on the subject of soulmates plus 1 on the subject of on-line dating:

8 Ways to Find Yourself Before Looking for Your Soulmate

How to Make a Soul Mate Relationship

Making the Most of Online Dating — Despite the Disadvantages

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.