I had one, she was amazing, had been a therapist for domestic violence and other tough things, so she was a truly qualified one and it showed. Strong, funny, independent. Unfortunately she has a serious physical disease and Im already caregiving someone (my ex) so when I would complain about how he was like a baby not addressing his issues (very manipulative), she took it personally and viciously cut me off, mocking me, the whole deal. I have been online friends with people w ptsd and panic attacks and phew, I just cant deal with fanatic face bookers from whom you are lucky to get an answer to your email and feel like many kinds of cold behavior are ok because there are so many other people available. Life in the fast lane, no thanks!