Sex complicates a lot of things, and while most people are ready for the physical, few are ever ready for the emotional impact. There are a lot of individuals who don’t even know what they really want, let alone who they want. I lost my virginity at 25, and I wanted to wait. I ended up giving in because I felt like I was missing out on some romanticized version that I had in my head. I wish that I could go back in time. Sex is overrated, unless you have someone who really meets your needs, physically, mentally and emotionally.