It's all subjective, right? People think a lot of things about me based on what I look like, talk, act and like. Once they get to know me they realize different and closer to what it probably is. But sometimes they never do. In life you have to be prepared for that. People will think things about you, their perception is based on their experiences.

I'm negative, slightly condescending, sarcastic and offending at times. I can either be a bitter person if you're on that side, or if you get to know me a loving and cuddly person until provoked.

We don't always see ourselves clearly, so it's useful to reality check with people, but don't take all of what they say to heart because they may see the image of you undistorted like ourselves distort it, but they can't see deep inside you like you can.

*hug* I deal with self hatred a lot too, so I know where you're coming from and the advice anyone gives will be hard to really take to heart. I hope you can though. ^_^ Be happy? Maybe what they say is true, now you can work to fix it.