My BF relapsed after 3.5 yrs clean and I don't know what to think, feel, do...I told him from day one that I am not looking for "perfection" just 100% honesty. At the same time though, the addiction is unacceptable and there needs to be accountability somewhere. I cannot and should not be the accountability (I don't think??), but I do have to have boundaries with consequences if/when they are broken. For me personally, I feel like I am in a black fog. I'm having GREAT difficulty functioning at work. I'm barely even thinking about anything at all really. I have no idea what to do...