I'm not sure what you mean by "evolved". I am setting some rules. Like if I do the main part of a job, she can't bully me into doing the part that is supposed to be her job. She's been trying to make me do her part for 2 days and tonight there is a tantrum because I'm staying firm about it. I really hate the way she tries to turn simple tasks into a team effort and then she procrastinates until 2 AM and won't let me go to bed after a long day of work. The odd thing is that the tantrums make me feel giuilty about not helping out when I already worked alone all day.

Thanks for being supportive. I feel like I've been complaining a lot lately and you've been so nice about it.