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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
Breaking up definitely IS hard to do. A lot of people stay together for financial reasons and also for the children as they don't want their breakup to cause harm to the children who are simply not old enough to understand it and they definitely will be affected if their mother falls apart from the breakup or takes a vengeful stance.
How old are you and your wife?
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I'm 44, she's 46.
I grew up in a home with chaos ( and they are still together but really should not be). I do not want my kids to grow up in a home that is either chaos or one where they can see their parents don't show love and affection to each other.
I realize this will hurt them. Like I said, I would have already started the process if we could afford it. I shift between stabilizing it so I could leave while not coming to my "home" for who knows for how long, and getting out as fast as I can.
To give some insight, to her, Divorce is not even an option.