Everyone is supposed to be a little bit of everything to get by

Except a narcissist for example will move place to place. Eventually their whole family will turn against them and people use family to be social etc..

Do they change then?

A musician was at my house yesterday. She was like "Do people change?" and I said "Idk with psychedelics they do". So basically, life is like a psychedelic. And that can change people.